I want to say this, so I'm saying it to people I don't know.

[Gaelle]

To those who care:

Every teenager goes through these kind of things...
But it's not quite happy. Ok, so there's my best friend. We share everything, and we know every little detail about each other. But there's something bothering me!!! :( She is perfect.
She is cute, thin, happy, funny, loved, AND RICH!!!
Everytime I find something that makes me feel good about myself, it turns out she is better at it. Like I thought I had a nice singing voice, she turned to have a great one. :mad:
I think that I'm a bit jealous, but I don't want her to look better than me.

Even though, we are real close friends, I can't tell her how I feel.
It's getting on my nervs!

If someone has an advice or anything to say, Please post it, Maybe I could use it.

:stare: Please try to help.

Besides that, everything is happy with me :rofl:

[Rasalom]

Uhm... Just don't be jealous. Jealousy is seriously stupid & pointless, being annoyed that someone is better than you at something makes no sense. One thing you must remember is that no matter how good you are at something, there will always be someone who is better. You are better than a lot of people at a lot of things, but some people are better than you at a lot of things, your friend is just one of those people, just be happy for her, because I'm sure when you have some sort of triumph she is happy for you. You may well be better than her at something, you just have to find that thing. 'Till then, just chill out & try not to let her being better at something bother you, try to look at things philisophically.

[Gaelle]

Well, I guess you're right.
But no matter what, I'll always think of it, like I'm some kind of loser..:S
It's like I can't do anything right.
But actually she comes to me for advice..:D:D

[CrimsonInferno]

That's something you're probably better than at with her -- giving out advice. Jealousy in all honesty is a waste of time. Enjoy what you've got with her. You both can teach each other things and help each other out rather then seethe behind the other's back about what their strong suits and wishing you had them.

[Rasalom]

Well, I guess you're right.
But no matter what, I'll always think of it, like I'm some kind of loser..:S
It's like I can't do anything right.
But actually she comes to me for advice..:D:D

Don't worry about it, you can do plenty of things better than her, give advice for one.

[itsmetosha123]

No ones perfect at everything,and u need to tell her how u feel.and i have a friend thats braggy and i slapped her face.i dont think thats helpful though

[rocktimestar]

Don't be jealous.... And if you are having any prob. then share with her as she is your very close friend she will understand.....

[Candi Lipps]

Be happy with who you are, u dont want to be just like her, u should be yourself and if that means she is better at everything, then let it be. You dont want to compete with ur best friend it just wont end well. Accept that she can sing and u can sing o.k. - its not a bad thing! And i doubt that she is perfect because nobody is. And just cause you she rich doesnt mean anything. Be happy who you are and just let her be what she is. You will spend way too much energy on the thought of it and waste too much of ur time, u dont need that - being young and all. :wink:

[Gaelle]

Awww..
WELL i guess you're right. Besides, for the past two months I've realised that she isn't much better than I am. Well, I can do plenty of other things.
THANK YOU ALL VERY MUCH! =) XD

[snookid]

woah ... good to see lots of ppl are good on giving out advice .... :P .... neways tht's what forums can do .... nobody/nothing is perfect .... and m nobody ahaha jk

[littlemissredhead]

No body is perfect. Look i had a friend who i thought was perfect i mean she was also rich, cute, thin, happy, funny, and loved but the thing was she wasnt happy because her parents were always fighting and they got a divorce soon. The thing is be happy with what you have and try and not be to jelous. Also hun you have to stop comparing yourself to your friend and like your self for who you are.

[Sk8erskieler10]

Everyone gets jelous. You shouldn't be ashamed! I have the same exact problem too! My friend is blonde and more shy than me so... People are more atrracted to her than me... What I do is remeber that she is my friend and ignore all of the stupid facts! :rofl:

[Gaelle]

FOR THE ONES WHO ARE GOOD AT GIVING ADVICE:

I have another issue, i'm gonna discuss in another thread..
please help!!!!!!
thanks

[R3sident]

Hi
Probably this isn't right feelings ... i mean jealousy. She is your friend, close friend as i understood. As i thought i also have that kind of friends (close friends) they are better than me in some cases. Thought of that both of you are two complementary 'things'.

Greetings!