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Vamp_Girlie
09-08-2007, 02:25 AM
Im 13. Yeah....i need a BF, really badly. Im lonely:crysmile:.....
And me on msn.....and we can get to know each other.
Rasalom
09-08-2007, 06:20 AM
If you want a guy look for one that lives close to you, someone you know, not some random ass guy off the internet who will in all liklihood turn out to be a 40 year old pedophile living in his parents basement. You're 13, you shouldn't be worried about having a guy anyway, having a b/f will not make you happy or keep you from being lonely, the only thing boys lead to is pain, depression, & misery. You'll have enough of that to be going with in your lifetime, no point in trying to get a jump start on it. Be happy just being a kid, stop trying to grow up too fast, you really don't know what you're getting into, wait until you understand the way the world works a little better.
tyciol
10-08-2007, 12:31 AM
Do so many people really lie about their ages? I don't, but I guess maybe I don't understand what it's like since I'm still 21. Oddly enough, some 40yos probably don't lie, and probably still get dates.

Boys don't always lead to pain, depression and misery, just 98% of the time, because of the 98% composition of *******s.

Saying things like 'don't grow up too fast' don't tend to dissuade people. It feels restrictive. Rather, emphasizing the simple playful and non-sexual aspects of life and their value is probably better.

Basically, everyone does dating and sex and it's nothing special, but how many people can tend a garden well? Growing a rose takes more skill than growing a baby.
Rasalom
11-08-2007, 01:23 PM
Do so many people really lie about their ages? I don't, but I guess maybe I don't understand what it's like since I'm still 21. Oddly enough, some 40yos probably don't lie, and probably still get dates.

Boys don't always lead to pain, depression and misery, just 98% of the time, because of the 98% composition of *******s.

Saying things like 'don't grow up too fast' don't tend to dissuade people. It feels restrictive. Rather, emphasizing the simple playful and non-sexual aspects of life and their value is probably better.

Basically, everyone does dating and sex and it's nothing special, but how many people can tend a garden well? Growing a rose takes more skill than growing a baby.

Yes, well, I do anyway. I'm 40, a pedophile, & I live in my parent's basement, but online I claim to be 19. I haven't been able to find a 12 year old to date me yet when telling the truth =/

They do.

I'm not trying to dissuade her, I'm encouraging her by reverse psychology, I want her to accept a certian proposal by me on my other sexier account =D

Whoa, randomness, flowers, babies, leave the flowers be & they'll manage.
blackrabbit
23-08-2007, 05:52 PM
... that's good.
Rasalom
23-08-2007, 07:11 PM
... that's good.

Go to hell & take it in the ass from Satan. =)
neha_emme
05-09-2007, 05:45 AM
If you want a guy look for one that lives close to you, someone you know, not some random ass guy off the internet who will in all liklihood turn out to be a 40 year old pedophile living in his parents basement. You're 13, you shouldn't be worried about having a guy anyway, having a b/f will not make you happy or keep you from being lonely, the only thing boys lead to is pain, depression, & misery. You'll have enough of that to be going with in your lifetime, no point in trying to get a jump start on it. Be happy just being a kid, stop trying to grow up too fast, you really don't know what you're getting into, wait until you understand the way the world works a little better.


rasalom is rite girl.....why dont u wait when ur 18 nd when u go to collage u'll find a guy u is gud enough for u.........datin online is just a waste of time.....hu noe hu dat guy really is??.....so it better if u dont date online nd its better if u dont date at dis age.........i hav experience nd its nt a gud lyf always.......its toooo much pressure nd tension at a young age.
Rasalom
05-09-2007, 06:24 AM
Pay attention, she knows what she's talking about.
neha_emme
05-09-2007, 06:31 AM
yea i do...lolzz...
Rasalom
05-09-2007, 08:22 AM
Very much do lol. Three more posts & I'll have 4,000 =D
danny
05-09-2007, 10:27 PM
looks like you made those 3 more posts now =)
Rasalom
06-09-2007, 04:07 AM
Those & more lol.
danny
07-09-2007, 11:24 PM
many many more
Rasalom
07-10-2007, 08:06 AM
Yushie.

:domo:
haza.haxa
07-10-2007, 05:27 PM
what is the point in having a dating section if everyone just has a go at everyone who posts anything in it?
Dark_Dragon_Guy
09-10-2007, 03:33 AM
On more than one occasion I have posted something here. Each time the same inconsiderate people, such as rasalom, have seen fit to argue that any attempt is futile. Yet here in the "Dating" section, what are we supposed to do? Exchange classwork? In all honesty I understand waht is being said. I accept that people are of their own opinions, but that doesn't mean I have to care. Feel what you will, but if you can't take other people's attempts, sign out of this forum!

Dark
CrimsonInferno
09-10-2007, 03:55 AM
On more than one occasion I have posted something here. Each time the same inconsiderate people, such as rasalom, have seen fit to argue that any attempt is futile. Yet here in the "Dating" section, what are we supposed to do? Exchange classwork? In all honesty I understand waht is being said. I accept that people are of their own opinions, but that doesn't mean I have to care. Feel what you will, but if you can't take other people's attempts, sign out of this forum!

Dark


Thanks for pointing out some people (who probably won't care anyway). Maybe we should sign out of this forum, but in all honesty I think the one who posted this thread shouldn't have. At thirteen? I was in a relationship, but I knew I wasn't in love. I was dating, but it was no big deal. Now I'm a little older and look back and I think "What was the point of dating that person in the first place if all I wanted was to get to know them?" Currently,I'm single...no big deal. Now...the dating forum though IS for people who want to "hook up", but people do, sadly, hold something against on-line dating (we all have our little glitches). And yet, I will continue to STRONGLY hold a grudge against a little teen girl or boy looking for "love" on the computer. I am sorry, but you are MUCH too young when you have SO much ahead of you. Having a boyfriend at thirteen isn't love... you just want one to have one. Believe me...been there, done that. You have your laughs, you have your fun, but just be friends with the person. You don't need a boyfriend or girlfriend. It's a waste of time. I don't want to come on here and find "BOO-HOO! My boyfriend dumped me he's such a *bleep*" and have someone ask "How old are you?" "12" NO! Stuff doesn't work that way.

I say if you WANT to use this forum...without too many people ragging on you...please be 18 or over. Thank you.
haza.haxa
09-10-2007, 05:17 PM
oh. let them have some fun. I'm not saying they will find love online, but if they wanna try, I think u should just let them. Its a free country after all. If you dont count laws or taxes.
Ithinkthisusernameislong
09-10-2007, 07:26 PM
rasalom is rite girl.....why dont u wait when ur 18 nd when u go to collage u'll find a guy u is gud enough for u.........datin online is just a waste of time.....hu noe hu dat guy really is??.....so it better if u dont date online nd its better if u dont date at dis age.........i hav experience nd its nt a gud lyf always.......its toooo much pressure nd tension at a young age.


Kso.....ya....plz dont bring back dt's.(dead threads)
tyciol
22-10-2007, 01:15 PM
what is the point in having a dating section if everyone just has a go at everyone who posts anything in it?

Trial by fire, you hone and forge better people by not coddling them.