Question relating dating

[gabriel_778]

Hi all
Actually wanna want to know how to date make a successful.
So am asking you some questions related to dating:
» What are the essentials of a lasting relationship? What kind of signs do girls give you when they're interested? How to tell if someone is interested in you?
» Which signs are pointing out that relationship is going to develop in a long term love and friendship? Decided if you can get along with someone?
» How to make yourself interesting, and compel people want to become involved with you?
Please give me your suggestion. Do you recommend any book which gives dating tips?
Thanks….

[Rasalom]

Hi all
Actually wanna want to know how to date make a successful.
So am asking you some questions related to dating:
» What are the essentials of a lasting relationship? What kind of signs do girls give you when they're interested? How to tell if someone is interested in you?
» Which signs are pointing out that relationship is going to develop in a long term love and friendship? Decided if you can get along with someone?
» How to make yourself interesting, and compel people want to become involved with you?
Please give me your suggestion. Do you recommend any book which gives dating tips?
Thanks….

To answer your questions:
What are the essentials of a lasting relationship? -You really aught to be able to figure this one out on your own, seriously, it isn't a hard thing, if shes a decent person, someone you like & respect, who reciprocates those feelings, then things may go well for you-

What kind of signs do girls give you when they're interested? How to tell if someone is interested in you? -Again, you really aught to be able to get this on your own, it isn't hard. Not every girl sends 'signs' you just have to guess & if you're wrong then oh well, **** happens. They're generally interested if they try to be around you, call you, talk to you, etc.-

Which signs are pointing out that relationship is going to develop in a long term love and friendship? Decided if you can get along with someone? -Is this a rhetorical question?-

How to make yourself interesting, and compel people want to become involved with you? -Simple answer? You don't. If someone can't love you for who you are then they aren't worth your time. You shouldnt have to change yourself or pretend to be something you aren't for anyone, a decent girl will love you for who you are.-

Please give me your suggestion. Do you recommend any book which gives dating tips? -DO NOT READ DATING BOOKS, they're all written by idiots who don't know what they're talking about, follow the advice in dating books & you'll be single forever. All that Dr. Phil crap is completely useless.

[andrew_0099]

The best book I've read so far on picking up girls is called the System. I got it on amazon. The author is Roy Valentine. I actually used the stuff from the book to pick up a girl the same week I read the book. Highly recommended.

[liz.taylor]

for a successful date you must be loyal and honest with your partner

[Rasalom]

for a successful date you must be loyal and honest with your partner

....Wrong.

On one random date you have no one to be loyal to & the person you're with isn't considered your partner yet.

[quake5x]

yea i would have to say being comfortable with the person your with...from my experience n observation of others, relationships fall apart when someone becomes tense, nervous or uncomfortable. if you feel absolutely comfortable with someone then odds are it will last for a long time.

[tyciol]

Hi all
Actually wanna want to know how to date make a successful.
So am asking you some questions related to dating:
» What are the essentials of a lasting relationship? What kind of signs do girls give you when they're interested? How to tell if someone is interested in you?
» Which signs are pointing out that relationship is going to develop in a long term love and friendship? Decided if you can get along with someone?
» How to make yourself interesting, and compel people want to become involved with you?
Please give me your suggestion. Do you recommend any book which gives dating tips?
Thanks….
A lasting relationship will be one where people genuinely get along, know each other as who they are, interact well and fairly, and are always keeping up and improving and expanding so they remain interesting to one another.

If someone is interested in you, they will react to you, either by approaching or being evasive. There are never any clear signs, it depends on both parties, and also external parties involved and setting.

There are never really any signs that something is going to turn out well. You do the best you can, try not to be deceptive, and let things work themselves out. You assess this best yourself as you go.

Don't become interesting just for the sake of others. Become interesting to yourself. Pursue your interests. If you have none, ponder on the world and find some. If you legitimately believe in yourself, it's more convincing, and you'll be happier in the long run.

I can't recommend any books, just read a bunch at the library for free if you want, but really, I think reading about legitimate areas of study is better than all this fuss on how to interact with others, when really there's often nothing worth interacting with in either party's case.

[pinkalex]

Just be yourself and don't worry to much on everything.

[tyciol]

What are the essentials of a lasting relationship?Compatibility, which essentially means no one knows and they call it 'compaible' when it works out.

What kind of signs do girls give you when they're interested? How to tell if someone is interested in you?Varies on the girl and the guy they're interested in. There's nothing concrete. Just guess because it's okay if you're wrong. Or just try not to let what she feels affect how you behave because you still want to spend time with girls who don't like you and not spend time with ones that do but who require you to be different right?
Which signs are pointing out that relationship is going to develop in a long term love and friendship? Decided if you can get along with someone?Getting along's probably a positive sign, because people who don't get along don't tend to stay together longterm or be friends.
How to make yourself interesting, and compel people want to become involved with you?Ditch caring about that and become someone you find interesting and enjoy spending time with yourself. There's reasons besides how people respond to you to do interesting stuff and be cool. Feeling cool about yourself is just plain awesome regardless of how people react. It's about being genuine.
Please give me your suggestion. Do you recommend any book which gives dating tips? Thanks….None in particular, but I recommend if you feel a need to go read them you not pay any money for them. Try e-books you can get free online (and don't let them saddle you with an ad to buy a bigger book) or better yet, published ones you can borrow rom the library. Don't get too absorbed in a single book. Also reference fiction because fiction's better because you know it's fiction whereas people don't tend to notice this about a lot of self help books. Fiction encourages you to think for yourself.

[AlexAppleton]

You can make your dating more successful and interesting by romance,giving gifts with candle light dinner and many more things....All the best...

[AlexAppleton]

I really like to dating for girls.Varies on the girl and the guy they're interested in. There's nothing concrete. Just guess because it's okay if you're wrong.

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[Quw]

» How to make yourself interesting, and compel people want to become involved with you?

find out as much as possible about her/him and use that to surprise her/him. e.g. you can ask some secret question from her and use the info you get to make her/him a nice surprise.