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scottdalot
05-08-2006, 05:25 PM
Feel free to leave all your comments, both good and bad.

I personaly am a very open minded man and fel there is no harm in having group sex with consenting adults and if done safe.

Elijah
05-08-2006, 11:10 PM
It's a double edged sword. On the one hand, you could really enjoy it, and your partner will as well. On the other, it could drive a wedge of jealously between you and your partner.

Consentual is the way to go, as well as with people you know. Lay out the rules before hand(will there be bondage, anal/oral/vaginal, masters/slaves, etc), and then indulge yourself.

prada_ßaße
18-08-2006, 03:13 PM
i don't like it

verycherry
03-09-2006, 08:09 PM
i think its great specially when theres more of one sex then the other

Rasalom
04-09-2006, 06:19 AM
if you mean more women than men i completely agree

verycherry
04-09-2006, 07:16 PM
i ment more men than women

flayedman
05-09-2006, 12:30 AM
group sex is great as long as theres no jealousy b/w u and ur partner and there is of course more women then men

Rasalom
05-09-2006, 02:03 AM
thats what im talkin bout

ben 4 eva
05-09-2006, 05:38 PM
flayedman
i would agree with u

Rasalom
05-09-2006, 11:19 PM
flayedman
i would agree with u

i think every male in the world does

Elijah
06-09-2006, 11:32 AM
i think every male in the world does

Yeah, except homosexual men, right?

I have to retract what I said about you earlier in regards to your charisma. You're another idiot.

!!abbot
06-09-2006, 01:21 PM
I have been into group sex for almost a year now and in the company of my wife we both enjoy this a lot. But yes as one of the other posters has referred to here it is true that at times jealousy might creep in and this is where you need to be careful of, also it is very hard to determine that who would give you more sexual pleasure. If in any case it appears that the balance is not equal then the whole thing should be stopped this is my opinion. As one of my friends had to encounter a divorce just because of this. Sp this is fun with pitfalls alilke. :cheerlead

Elijah
06-09-2006, 02:17 PM
It's nice to have an experienced opinion on the matter.

neha_emme
06-09-2006, 03:26 PM
completely dont like group sex.

Rasalom
06-09-2006, 07:02 PM
Yeah, except homosexual men, right?

I have to retract what I said about you earlier in regards to your charisma. You're another idiot.

idiot?!? im offended

verycherry
06-09-2006, 08:12 PM
Yeah, except homosexual men, right?

I have to retract what I said about you earlier in regards to your charisma. You're another idiot.
i think ur right about the homosexual men theyed like more men than girls
of corse i would too lol

mmfgrsk8
02-12-2006, 09:35 PM
do u want to do me? like u dont no me so if u saw me like doing some1 would u be like o iwant to do her no that why i think sex should be like swinging with people u no tongue with girls vaginal with guys

Venus
03-12-2006, 12:39 AM
Well it depends on how comfortable you and your partner are .. If that is what you both want then its all good.. Me personally I couldnt do that sort of thing.. I guess im too much of a private person and prefer the company of one man

opopo
03-12-2006, 04:11 PM
there has to be 2 girls for every guy

sounds fair to me

Talas
04-12-2006, 08:59 AM
there has to be 2 girls for every guy

sounds fair to me

Someone has a big head. :bear:

AdultPersonals
13-07-2007, 11:18 PM
I have a friend who is married and a very big swinger with his wife! He has the best stories about hooking up with hot girls and couples and to be honest I am a bit jealous. But the truth is that this sort of lifestlye is only for certain type of people. Not for me. I prefer to have one good girl (although I may not have an objection to having a third girl).

I dont think that there is anythign wrong with swinging as long as your partner is cool with it. You have to find a good balance. My friend, who will remain nameless, says that the key to swinging is to not put in any emotional attachement to the people you are swinging with. It is just sex and nothing else.

evolloner
21-07-2007, 03:47 AM
I don't like group sex.

MichelleG.
23-08-2007, 05:00 AM
I don't share my man with anyone sexually. No way no how.
To me,group sex is another form of cheating,you're just doing the cheating with your partner in the room. The fact theres no privacy is a little disturbing because to me,sex is a very private act between 2 people,not a free for all with everyone who cares to join in and see.

Rasalom
23-08-2007, 04:54 PM
If it's a girl I don't like, then I dont mind, but if it's one I really like, then I'm too selfish to share, even with other women.

darsh39
06-11-2007, 05:31 PM
group sex is a big no no for me.....
i cant have sex in a group...

kris123
26-04-2008, 07:57 AM
i tried both with females and males...but njoi doing wid males:blush:

liaza
03-05-2008, 05:06 PM
id say it depends if ur in love or not its not easy to let someone else touch ur guy or him see someone touch u if ur in love so if not in love then yeh id say its fun

snookid
03-05-2008, 11:09 PM
GROUP?? == eww... a big NO NO for me
Threesome at most .... even doubt that one

Lollipop
04-05-2008, 02:11 AM
Group sex? No way... that's disgusting.

pinkalex
08-05-2008, 07:09 AM
:emo-no: I don't like it, it feels awkward for me.

tyciol
14-05-2008, 08:43 AM
I think it can lead to too much focus on the sex and not on using sex as a way to solidify and explore indepth personal relationships, which I like a lot more honestly, as a romantic and stuff.

That said, there's probably not any inherant harm in it, but keeping it safe becomes exponentially more difficult the more partners you add.