So close to giving up

[Kristy19]

I've been or was talking to a guy in the navy. Everything was fine until he wanted to visit me but I had a wedding to go to out of state. Well a few days later he texted me and asked how could our relationship possibly work if I'm always busy? September is busy for me and I told before all this happened. Its just that I had a wedding that I was in and this wedding had been planned for the past 6 months or so. I couldn't back out just because he wanted to hang out. The last time we talked he told me he's been busy at work and stuff which I totally understand but I was only calling to let him know that I had a few weekends next month to see him. I never did get around to that because his attitude completely threw me off. Since that night we haven't talked. I want to call him just to ask him where this attitude was coming from but I'm not sure if I should. So should I just let him go for now and wait til he calls or should I just let him go completely?

[mikiv]

Let him go, i mean you don't really know him that well right? And if he was temperamental just because you were busy the one time, then he either has baggage or just isn't the greatest personality. Some people are just like that and you don't want to be involved with them because it always ends badly. If he calls and apoligises or explains then great give him a chance but if not well then you aren't his priority or he is too imature. If i were you i would let him go a bad attitude isn't really acceptable especially when your hardly in a relationship.

[jerryfox004]

Hi there...how are u guys...nice comments..

[Cupid]

The best advice is the advice that comes from your gut. If your gut tells you there is a problem, then guess what... there is. If you feel like you should back out of this situation, then that is the best option for you. If your gut tells you to wait it out and see if the problem is fixed, then that is what you should do. So the question is, what does your gut tell you to do about this situation? Listen to yourself.

[cleondann]

I've been or was talking to a guy in the navy. Everything was fine until he wanted to visit me but I had a wedding to go to out of state. Well a few days later he texted me and asked how could our relationship possibly work if I'm always busy? September is busy for me and I told before all this happened. Its just that I had a wedding that I was in and this wedding had been planned for the past 6 months or so. I couldn't back out just because he wanted to hang out. The last time we talked he told me he's been busy at work and stuff which I totally understand but I was only calling to let him know that I had a few weekends next month to see him. I never did get around to that because his attitude completely threw me off. Since that night we haven't talked. I want to call him just to ask him where this attitude was coming from but I'm not sure if I should. So should I just let him go for now and wait til he calls or should I just let him go completely?

tht could be due to some ohther major goals in his life... don't let him go if u lik him.. that could also being due to distances... sometimes u care 4 the person bt busy life dnt let u to thnk abt his or her... keep in touch of him and stay there fr the right moment.:heartpump :heart3: