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seth3g5
11-04-2009, 03:45 AM
first off im 15.

There is there is this girl that i met almost 2 months ago. Right now we are just friends but i really realy really like her. i like her way more than any other girl i have ever liked. She has a boyfriend and they’ve been together for 2 years. She never has even mentioned him to me but she knows that i know she has a boyfriend. Whenever we see each other around school we always say hi and we still do even if she is with her boyfriend. I’d say we are pretty good friends but just friends.

She told me she missed me after we didn't see each other for 3 days, sometimes she touches my arm when she talks to me but she only does when we are alone. also, she makes excuses for her to touch me. So I'm pretty sure she likes me but obviously im not 100% sure.

But i have no idea what to do?? do i tell her how i feel and risk losing a good friend?? do i just wait for them to break up even if they have been together for 2 years? and i don’t think i can just move on because she is the only girl like and i like her a lot.

any help would REALLY BE APPRECIATED
thanks
Jordann
13-04-2009, 03:08 AM
I feel the same about a boy.
He knows I like him.
And he likes me.
But he has a girlfriend
And when he started dating her,
he began ignoring me.
But only when she's around.

I don't have any good advice,
but if it were me,
I'd mention it around.
Like,
"I really like this girl.
and I think she likes me,
but she has a boyfriend.
We're best friends,
but I don't know what to tell her."

I hope I helped?
seth3g5
13-04-2009, 10:50 PM
yeah thanks,

jw, if you were in the same situation as her, would want me to tell you like that?
Jordann
14-04-2009, 03:30 AM
I would.
Let me know how it works out.
seth3g5
14-04-2009, 10:26 PM
will do.

I'm probably gonna wait a couple of weeks before I tell her.
Jordann
15-04-2009, 04:08 AM
Ok.
Maybe hint around a little.
Like, friend-y hugs.
SimpleSimon
16-04-2009, 07:52 PM
What's worse? Wanting her as a girlfriend but never telling her so and faking it the whole time, or finding out how she feels one way or the other? Even if she doesn't like you back, at least you'll know for sure and ultimately that'll be better for you. Ask her what she feels.
Jordann
16-04-2009, 08:17 PM
What's worse? Wanting her as a girlfriend but never telling her so and faking it the whole time, or finding out how she feels one way or the other? Even if she doesn't like you back, at least you'll know for sure and ultimately that'll be better for you. Ask her what she feels.

-claps hands together.
Amen.
SimpleSimon
16-04-2009, 09:05 PM
Why thank you. My first quote!!!
Jordann
16-04-2009, 09:24 PM
Ha.
I've had 3.
Thrilling, isn't it?
Riyl Crawl1
25-05-2009, 02:23 AM
If she is touching you, thats a hint she likes you. if you likes this girl that much and she is showing a little hint that a girl likes you, go for it. easier said than done though. i hate having to ask girls out.:crazy: